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The Dangerous Days of Daniel X

Mama PhD

August 18-29

35 essays on combining work and family, Mama PhD explores women–specifically mothers–in academia.  Editors Elrena Evans and Caroline Grant have compiled a collection that will have women in the ivory tower nodding their heads while providing insight and understanding to those wishing to build equality on university campuses.

As the back of the collection states: “candid, provocative, and sometimes with a wry sense of humour, the essays speak to and offer support for any woman attempting to combine work and family.”

Where to find more about Mama PhD and editors, Elrena Evans and Caroline Grant:

	Caroline Grant’s website Elrena Evans’s website Mama PhD website
	Look for reviews of Mama PhD in Author Magazine.
	Guest blogging at The Debutante’s Ball
	Read an excerpt from the book
	Book Trailer

Here’s what MotherTalk reviewers are saying about Mama PhD:

Bluemilk says, “By the time you finish Mama PhD you will know one thing with absolute certainty, the patriarchy is an extraordinarily wasteful way of organising society! Because what country, and certainly what university can afford to squander human capital in such a fashion - to obstruct, deny, and ultimately chase highly educated and talented women from out of its ranks?”

Compost Happens says, “The contributors to Mama, PhD write with clarity and passion. Essays are easy to follow, and despite (or perhaps due to) the advanced degrees of the writers, easy to understand. Emotions are never far below the surface; readers will feel the pain and the divisiveness the writers encounter.”

Wavybrains says, “I loved that a wide range of disiplines, ages, geography, and experiences are represented by the essays. The women representing the sciences, psychology, economics, and history add a depth to the conversation, one that I’m not sure could be achieved in a book of MFA’s and English PhD’s. Consequently, I would make this book a must-read and a must-gift for any woman contemplating or living with a graduate degree.”

Peter’s Cross Station says, “And I feel torn about it. I would have felt guilty doing the writing and now I feel guilty because I didn’t.  Enter the book that speaks to all of that and more.  If I can’t join them, I can at least nod frantically in agreement and sympathy as I read about mothers who feel they have to keep pregnancies a secret and pretend their children don’t exist to maintain the respect of their colleagues.”

PCOS Baby says, “It was a very open, sometimes brutally frank, look at the academy and essentially how it fails women who want to also have a family. And yes, some of the contributors talk about how it also fails men who want to have a family—but they also make the point that men are not responsible for the physical demands of both pregnancy, birth, and nursing a baby.  Many of the essays made me feel very…well, vindicated in my career choice is probably the best way to say it.”

Life in the Hundred-Acre Wood says, “In many ways, reading this book is a little like going back in time: It seems that the most astute and learned members of our society — who can cure diseases, quote hundreds of years of literature, and theorize about math equations ten pages long - don’t know how to treat mothers in academia. And that while terms like parental leave, flexible schedules, and on-site daycare, are slowly becoming a part of the conversation at some work places, they are a foreign language at many of our most progressive academic institutions.”

Here We Go Again says, “I did like getting a glimpse into the women’s personal lives. I’ve always enjoyed personal stories, about people’s jobs and families. This is probably why I like blogging and blog reading so much. It was interesting to read about the different ways that these women found to deal with newborns and dissertations at the same time.”

August 4-September 12

James Patterson has done it again, dreaming into existence a superhero with the power to create. The Dangerous Days of Daniel X is about a boy who has always used his hidden superpowers to survive, but he carries with him a deadly secret and the fate of the world rests on whether he succeeds at his mission.

Though the series is aimed at getting boys reading, like Harry Potter, Daniel X has tremendous cross-over potential. And, like his earlier series for boys–Maximum Ride –this one is destined to be a bestseller as well.

Where to find more about The Dangerous Days of Daniel X and author, James Patterson:

	Book website Wikipedia entry for the series Publisher’s website James Patterson’s blog on iVillage
	Excerpt from USA Today Interview at Borders New York Times article
	The Maximum Ride Series: The Angel Experiment School’s Out - Forever Saving the World The Final Warning
	Book Trailer

Here’s what MotherTalk reviewers are saying about The Dangerous Days of Daniel X:

Clearview says, “What’s interesting about this analysis to me is that in this book, Patterson has written a graphic novel with no eye candy. The pacing, the limited verbal character development, the smart-aleck style all fit that genre very well.”

Cass Knits says, “In truth, I don’t mind waiting if they are excited about reading. And how often does the same book appeal to all my readers?? Oh, I remember. It was Patterson’s last Maximum Ride. That little reading party caused several library runs!”

Random Wonder says, “The first person narration is engaging; it feels as if Daniel is letting the reader in on a secret. Daniel is likable and sincere, someone I’d like to know in real life. It is easy to identify with him and trust his voice. The short chapters are excellent for reluctant readers.”

Corblue’s Closet says, “A cross between Men in Black and Harry Potter. I read this book in two days. I was thoroughly and completely entertained. My son Aidan enjoyed the bits that I read out loud. I can’t wait for the next book. Will Daniel defeat Number 5?”

After the Bubbly says, “As he did with the Maximum Ride series, Patterson is once again blurring boudaries between middle grade, young adult, and mainstream fiction.”

As Yet Untitled says, “When I was a grad student studying children’s literature, conversations abounded on the differences between the reading habits of boys and girls. Girls are more likely to read, I was told, and boys, when they do read, tend to prefer nonfiction over fiction. These statements in turn led to more conversations: why do girls seem to like to read, and boys don’t? Why do girls read fiction and boys nonfiction? Why aren’t there more books — fiction and nonfiction alike — marketed to young boys?”

From One Mommy to Another says, “There are so many positives about this book that it is hard to find a place to start. Keep in mind - I looked at this book through the lens of a struggling or reluctant reader and as a teacher or parent who is desperately trying to get them reading.”

Chicka Nuts says, “While I know Patterson for a different kind of series, I kind of dig that he can get into writing something clean and appropriate for kids. It’s light, easy to read, and doesn’t lock you in to heavy details, which is why, if you have to put the book down for any length of time, like say for instance your kids commandeer the book for a few days, you won’t ‘lose your place’ and have to try to remember certain things.”

Three Women and a Blog says, “That an author would specifically set out to hook a new generation, a generation that has only known a world with widely available electronics and hundreds of television channels, back into reading is extremely commendable. It is an exceptionally hard task to pull a kid away from a video game and then show him that you can be just as entertained and engaged in a book.”

Lather. Rinse. Repeat says, “Daniel X starts out promising enough, with action and intensity. I mean, the above average language and physical dexterity of the 3-year old Daniel is intriguing enough to grab the reader.  An alien praying mantis like creature called ‘The Prayer’ arrives at Daniel’s home looking for The List and subsequently murders Daniel’s parents and his narrow escape leaves him with one solitary cause: to avenge their deaths.”

Pajama Mama says, “Finished reading The Dangerous Days of Daniel X with boy2001 just now.  Let me start off by saying, I LOVE the idea and premise of this book!  Getting boys to read is not the easiest thing to do, stories are often too frilly or just ‘boring’ to them, getting the right mix of substance and adventure is not an easy task.”

Books in Every Room says, “I would highly suggest getting this book for a reluctant reader on your list. It’s incredibly age appropriate, and definitely something that would engage a child with a yearning for adventure.”

My Little Patch of Sunshine says, “James Patterson has written another young adult novel in the hopes of hooking young boys into reading. The main character has superpowers — the ability to create things out of nothing and shapeshift.”

Zen-Mother says, “Some interesting things I like about the character were his abilities to manifest other people to be companions. His parents are long dead but Daniel manifests parents in the images of his own when he is lonely or he needs to explain to authorities that he really does have parents. He also manifests friends because he is hesitant to find any real ones.”

Juggling Life says, “The genre is Sci-Fi and there’s lots of action. There are also a ton of cultural references to things like the TV shows Miami Ink and 24. I think those references are great for kids to connect with. The main character is likable and the female characters are not weak–I really appreciate that. Daniel’s powers are not run-of-the mill, which is refreshing. The emphasis on his connection with his family is very sweet, but not cloying.”

Monkeygirl says, “The book is very action packed, the main character is really likable and the story moves fast. I didn’t particularly notice the short chapters, but as I mostly grab my reading time now in short spurts, I do love a short chapter. The book itself is fun and worth a read for anyone.”

Compost Happens says, “Daniel has no last name. He has no family, either; he creates his own family and friends with his highly developed magical imagination. He has amazing powers, outrageous intelligence, and a mission to avenge his parents’ violent deaths.”

Our Seven Qtpies says, “It turned out to be sort of like Men in Black, very humorous and full of action that boys love. It is also fast reading as each chapter is only a couple of pages long. I liked that it was easy to put down and do something in between chapters.”

Desperately Seeking Sanity says, “On the whole, Matthew and I both liked this book.  He told me as things were happening.  There were a few nights that I made him put the book away because it’s bed time and Matthew is typically very methodical with his reading.  If he says he’s going to read for 30 minutes, he reads for 30 minutes and then stops.  Regardless of where he is on the page.  ‘One more chapter, Mom?’ he would ask.  Of course, I said yes.  They were short.”

My Life As It Is says, “I cannot say enough about this book. Any book that captures Adam’s interest is a good book for me. There was a time when Adam would pour through books. We couldn’t get enough for him. And in the past year he’s slowed down in his reading. Not his love for reading, but the amount. Because he’s finding it harder and harder to find fiction books that he enjoys. And after searching through the bookstores I can see why.”

Homeschool Diaries says, “Des saw me engrossed, started reading over my shoulder, next thing I know, he was taking the book out of my hands and flopping down on a couch to read it himself. It took him a total of 3 days to finish. Not bad for a kid who couldn’t find anything to get engrossed in huh?”

Reverendmother says, “Daniel has a particularly cool superpower—the ability to rearrange atoms to create anything he wants. This gives him great skills in combat, but it also allows him to create a family or peer group whenever he wants one—and also to de-create them whenever he’d rather be left alone, and isn’t that every adolescent’s dream scenario?”

Knit Mama Knit! says, “James Patterson is one of my all time favorite authors. His novels always keep me up late at night, not wanting to put the book down. I’m so excited that he is also writing novels that are attractive to younger audiences.”

Boojoos and Aprilcots says, “The story line is a little bit Harry Potter (his parents are killed by his arch nemesis at an early age and Daniel is on a quest to avenge them using his special powers), a lot Men in Black (he is an alien hunter who has a list of aliens that are currently inhabiting earth that he has to kill) with the perfect amount of action, compassion, grossness, teenage angst and adventure.

Secretburning says, “My son thought the book’s concept was “Awesome!” before he even opened the book. I was surprised at that, because he is a hard-core nonfiction fan who has only recently gotten into fiction based on actual events.”

Seeryus Mama says, “Can you see why Johnny was just a little excited to read it? Right off the bat, Johnny was hooked. Daniel, the main character was giving background and sucked my kid right in. There are some challenging words in this book, and often there are times when I stop and ask Johnny questions. It was good for him to read, it was good for me too”

Sheepish Annie says, “Daniel is, quite simply, one of the most heartbreakingly lonely characters I’ve come across in a novel.  He is a boy rather unlike any other boy and certainly mature beyond his years.  Hence, he is capable of remarkable insight into his solitary condition.  And yet he is still very much a child, however much the world has conspired to make an adult of him.”

The Barkers Move to South Carolina says, “Each chapter in the book is about 3-4 pages long so we started out reading 1 or 2 chapters a night and by the 3rd night, my son was hooked and begging me to read more!! I think the length of the chapters will be a good selling point for struggling readers.”

Sew Inspired says, “The story was pretty interesting, and it got intense with Daniel battling some seriously bad aliens through much of the book. The language was clean and I was impressed with that.”

All Rileyed Up says, “I asked Patin to help me out in a completely unscientific survey and asked all the students who stopped by her library during lunchtime whether or not they would read this book based on the description above. Out of ten students, seven said yes, one asked for more details, one said he’d read it already (nerd alert) and one, interestingly, repsonded ‘I don’t read’.”

Wesnlani says, “I am so excited to read the next book in the series. Wesley asks me quite frequently when we get to read the book together again. What a special way to spend time reading with my son. Not only is it a book he loves, but I enjoy it also.”

Gift of Green says, “This book was a very quick read for me;I did appreciate the short chapters (often just two pages or so) and I think this will appeal to readers who get a little boost from completing smaller chunks of text rather than a feeling of slogging through long chapters.”

The Life of a Home Mom says, “But it was those that got him interested, something about ear canals and other gross stuff like when he kills the bugs/aliens. He laughed in the beginning when what we thought was just a kid turns into a bug and grossed me out.”

Hamster Boy says, “Even though it is a young people’s novel, as an adult I enjoyed the story immensely and had my nose in the book until I had finished it, which only took me hours. I can’t wait until my son is old enough to read it!”

Here We Go Again says, “I grabbed it and flopped down on my bed one night when the internet was temporarily down, intending to read for a couple minutes while I waited for Matt to reset the router. I ended up ignoring the computer until after I finished the book. It was a very quick read.”

Red Sox Bat Girl says, “Out of all my years as teaching, I can probably count on ONE hand the amount of boys I’d catch reading when they should have been studying or doing homework and can’t even use all my toes and fingers to count the girls. I was interested in reading James Patterson’s Daniel X for many reason….but his obvious dedication to adolescent readers was definitely one of them.”

LifeWithTwo says, “I recently received the new James Patterson book The Dangerous Days of Daniel X. Not only was I happy to receive a new book to read, but I was excited to be reading my first James Patterson book. I was not disappointed- I loved this book!”

Cheeky Monkey Play says, “A boy who is gifted with super powers goes out on this amazing archetypal quest for revenge and vision quest. The journey is cool and imaginative. His character is so very likable and the writing is quick and speedy enough to keep the interest easily. I like the way that Daniel can conjure up people when he needs them and his shape shifting abilities are awesome and no doubt very appealing to kids.”

The Opinionated Parent says, “My sense of humour indicates that I’m a 12 year old boy inside, and my love for this book proves it. I’ve read all of James Patterson’s adult novels and thoroughly enjoyed them, which was the main reason I decided to review The Dangerous Days of Daniel X.”

The Urban Intelligensia says, “If The Dangerous Days of Daniel X were a movie, I’d give it 4 stars.  If it were a television show, I’d definitely place it in the category of ‘must-see tv’.  That’s my assessment of this adrenaline-filled tome that reads like a fast-paced show or movie.  The chapters are short and every sentence is filled with movement.  I couldn’t put the book down!  And when I did put it down, I couldn’t stay away from it for long - I had to read it.”

Amanda says, “Daniel’s secret abilities - like being able to manipulate objects and animals with his mind or to recreate himself in any shape he chooses - have helped him survive. But Daniel doesn’t have a normal life. He is the protector of the earth, the Alien Hunter, with a mission beyond what anyone’s imagining.”

Crunchy Green Lovin’ Mom says, “I loved the perspective of The Dangerous Days of Daniel X, it’s like finding a friends journal and going through his experiences. There are no boring speeches or descriptions that sound forced or condescending. It is perfectly executed in only the way that James Patterson can do.”

Black Belt Mama says, “By the time I finished the 4th or 5th chapter, I was hooked. I didn’t care if there were crazy alien people.  Daniel X was a character that I wanted to get to know better.  I finished the book in only two nights of reading. It was one of those books that made me sacrifice sleep. When I was finished with the book, I felt like emailing Patterson and Ledwidge and asking when the next Daniel X book was scheduled to be released (I found out Fall 2009 and frankly, that’s too far away).”

Flexible Parenting says, “This book is very creative. Daniel’s powers alone make him very unique. Unlike other superheros, he doesn’t have just one super power. Throughout the book, new powers keep appearing. I think this alone will keep kids and adults alike entertained.”

SAHM Reviews says, “I kept reading.  Without my daughter.  Whoops.  And I did, indeed, get obsessed with it.  I read it whenever I could.  The book is designed to appeal to several age ranges so the chapters are literally only 2-3 pages long.  That’s awesome for a very-busy, easily-interrupted mom.  I could pick it up and read a few chapters here and there.  As an example, when the girls were playing in the tub or while DH was driving.”

Cool Moms Rule says, “He’s already shown himself capable of appealing to that hard-to-reach teen audience. His newest protagonist, Daniel X, is even more likely to appeal to boys, who will identify with his sense of estrangement from others his age (something all kids go through as they grow up and find their own identities), while sympathizing with his self-imposed mission: to hunt down the assassin who brutally murdered his parents.”

Dyslexia Information says, “Adolescent boys will not be able to put this action packed book down”

5 Minutes for Books says, “Another cool thing about this book is that Daniel enjoys reading (even though his super-high intelligence and his unusual living experience have placed him out of the drudgery of school). He mentions books that he’s reading by name (which might cause a curious reader to go and read them next). None of this is heavy-handed. It’s mentioned in the same way that his love for gourmet cooking is mentioned as well (which could inspire young adults to whip up something special for dinner).”

July 7-11

Nana Star, a gorgeous new picture book series by Elizabeth Sills and Elena Patrice, is the story of a little girl who finds a lost baby star and promises to bring it back up to the sky.  The first book, Nana Star, introduces the readers to the little girl who becomes Nana Star.  The second book in the series, Nana Star and the Moonman, follows the little girl as she begins her journey to bring back the lost star and learns a lesson about those who watch out for us even when we think we are alone.

Where to find more about Nana Star and authors Elizabeth Sills and Elena Patrice:

	Nana Star Website
	Nana Star	Nana Star and the Moonman

Here’s what MotherTalk reviewers are saying about Nana Star:

The Zen of Motherhood says, “She is just the type of heroine that you would wish for your young daughter. Kind, brave, and adventurous.”

Our Seven Qtpies says, “I first pulled out a cute little girl doll, which brought a smile of joy to Trinity’s face. Next I pulled out a little yellow man with blue clothing. Samuel seemed to know that it was destined for him, and he squealed as he ran to me to claim Moonman for himself.”

Miss O’s School Library says, “This book indirectly addresses a childs fear of being lost and separated from someone and having someone to protect them…The pictures are simple sketches that feel warm and could be easily copied by a child.”

All Rileyed Up says, “First and foremost, let me say, kudos to books come with a CD that reads the story aloud and sings a song. Why do I like CDs that read the story aloud? Because I DON’T always enjoy reading a story aloud twelve times an hour. I know that’s like some sort of bad parent admission, but so be it. I liken repeated reading aloud to the utmost of irritating songs, 12 Days of Christmas, and by the time my mind is reeling and singing to itself ‘Fiiiive Golden Reads!’ it’s time to pop in the CD. As a bonus, Little No Limit digs the CD. She flips through the pages on her own or just listens to the story while playing with her dolly Nana Star.”

Big Blueberry Eyes says, “One of the unique aspects to these books that I really like is that each book has a purposefully misspelled word. All Nana Star stories feature a mistake because Nana Star believes that in life we all make mistakes, yet, even with those mistakes, we can still create something beautiful. She reminds us that only God can make all things perfect! What a wonderful way to get a positive message across to young kids! You can also send Nana Star a note correcting the mistake and become an honorary member of the Nana Star Little Twinkles Club.”

NatureMoms Blog says, “I think these books are bound to be classics. They are so much fun and so enjoyable to read, especially when you have the accompanying dolls that make am appearance quite often throughout the books. They get a BIG thumbs up from mom too. The books are beautifully illustrated, very high quality, the story is wonderful, and the dolls are made of cloth.”

Life as Lou says, “The story is beautifully told and expresses a safety and security that all children could benefit from. You really get the feeling that there is always someone looking over you from these books, and yet they are not religious in the least. It gives comfort, hope and friendship fun new faces without being didactic or trite. That is growing hard to find in today’s world where morality and hope seem banned to the relgious sector! It is great to find a book with a positive message that is completely nonsecular.”

Magpie Musings says, “All in all, it’s a pretty charming package. The doll is sweet and perfect for my four year old. An unexpected benefit is that she’s the same size as the Groovy Girls - so their clothes fit Nana Star.”

Sleeping Mommy says, “My daughter has become very attached to the Nana Star doll which pleases me in this age of Bratz dolls. Nana Star and her Tinkerbell doll (roughly the same size and style as Nana Star) have become best friends forever and the Girl uses them to act out and expand upon the stories in the books using her imagination.”

Lastly, Actual Unretouched Photo says, “Nana Star and the accompanying items are really darling. While I am partial to Nana Star the doll, my daughter is still very fond of Moonman. The book is a delight with its lovely illustrations and my daughter loves listening to the CD on her Hello Kitty CD player.”

July 1-18

Best selling author, Elin Hilderbrand, brings more heat to the summer with her latest novel, A Summer Affair . Nantucket mother and artist, Claire Crispin, has a knack for taking on too much and never saying "no." This tendency comes to haunt her when she gets in over her head trying to plan the Nantucket’s Children Summer Gala which brings her inadvertently into the arms of another man. As the book jacket asks: "Will she be able to reclaim her old life and make everything - anything - all right?"

"Claire’s walk on the dark side is pure voyeuristic fun…A perfect summer cocktail of sex, sun and scandal" (Kirkus Reviews).

Where to find more about A Summer Affair and author Elin Hilderbrand:

	Publisher’s Web site for the book
	Pittsburgh Post-Gazette interview
	Other books by Elin Hilderbrand: Barefoot The Blue Bistro The Beach Club …And many more!

Here’s what MotherTalk reviewers are saying about A Summer Affair :

The Hidden Side of a Leaf says, "What I liked most about this book was when the focus was on Claire’s career. She’s a glassblower, and she does unique, museum-quality pieces, which means that she has only a few very wealthy clients. I’ve never really thought much about glassblowing, though I saw it done once as a child, and the details of Claire’s art were fascinating."

All Rileyed Up says, "Do you enjoy beach reads? Summer reads? Books that are read for the pure fun of reading? Books that will enable you to escape from your life and immerse yourself in someone else’s, in a totally non-Talented Mr. Ripley kind of way? Also, are you female? If you answered yes to all these questions, then A Summer Affair by Elin Hildebrand might be right up your alley. It is, above all else, a total summer read."

As Yet Untitled says, "Hilderbrand obviously knows her stuff about glassblowing, but it wasn’t presented in an off-putting way, it was woven seamlessly into the narrative. And it was totally captivating. I actually found myself holding my breath at times, it was so real — the heat, the fire, the delicate, molten glass. Beyond cool."

Superdumb Supervillian says, "It is a fun read, especially in the year of my 20th high school reunion. It’s way more Lands’ End than Louboutin, and there’s no Fabio in sight."

Zen Sarcasm Reviews says, "Sometimes I roll my eyes at the gushing, glowing reviews that books get quotes such as these,

A must-read!!!
You’ll devour it in one sitting!!!!!!!
Couldn’t put it down!!!!!!!
ZOMGOMGOMG!!!11111111 (granted, you’ll never find a reputable publication that would honest-to-goodness print that one, but hey– it’s the blogosphere)

And yet, I must be honest and admit that in the case of A Summer Affair that is exactly what happened."

Here We Go Again says, "I’d recommend this book to anyone looking for a nice summer read. I enjoyed it quite a bit. It was well written and didn’t insult my intelligence."

Gotcha Baby says, "Idyllic island life, a rock star ex-boyfriend, an illicit affair hidden behind a cause for children–do you need any other elements for a juicy summer beach read? I didn’t think so."

Mommy Writer Blog says, "You can imagine how messy this gets for Claire right? Very. Messy. So much so I found myself shaking my head and wondering what else might get screwed up in the process. And that is part of the ‘fun’ part of the book. You get to read. Gasp. Make snarky comments. Judge. And hell, you’re in your own home and no one is the wiser. In the end, you might even get to see how the hell this all turns out for Claire."

Juggling Life says, "I also love it when I can learn something new from a book. The description and information surrounding the art of main character (Claire Crispin Danner) was one of the best things about the book. If you’ve ever watched a glass blower at a fair or amusement park and wondered how they do it, you’ll love the descriptions of her hot shop and the details of how she creates her works of art. I’m definitely in the mood to go shopping for some glass art (there’s a little boutique in Laguna Niguel I’ve been dying to go back to)."

Booking Mama says, "To me, this book represents pure escapism — it will make a great book to take on vacation with you. There are lots of juicy storylines including ones dealing with adultery, addictions, and criminal behavior. The book is filled with enough scandals that it should appeal to the voyeur in all of us!"

Mommy Cracked says, "There’s just nothing like a good summer read that involves a character breaking all the rules and becoming entangled in a torrid affair that keeps you on the edge of your seat, especially when the character is your average middle-aged mom."

Fictionary says, "Hearts break and emotions are pushed to the limit in this riveting story of one woman’s attempt to deal with loves past and present, family, business, and high-powered social pressures. Elin Hilderbrand’s unique understanding of the joys and longings that animate women’s lives will make this her newest summer bestseller."

Wesnlani says, "I started to read this book and was instantly sucked in. I stayed up too late for two night so that I could finish this book. I just had to know what was going to happen. It seemed that there was constantly something happening to the books main character. I felt a little like I was spying into the life of these people and just couldn’t turn away from it."

Did You See That? says, "The Great Escape. That is the kind of book I’m looking for when I’m looking for a good, summer beach read. And A Summer Affair fits the bill perfectly."

Karma Calling says, "All in all, a fun, entertaining read. For the beach or when you are sitting by the pool when you take your 3-yr old swimming (ok wading) or on those balmy Saturday mornings. You will escape in to an idyllic world in a beach community, right in your own backyard."

Though Letters from a Small State didn’t love the book, she admits: "Hilderbrand is a graduate of the University of Iowa writing workshop which, by definition, makes her no slouch in the fiction department. The quality of story shows here in the pacing and the complexity of character interaction."

Wet Feet says, "I planned to read A Summer Affair on the beach but I ended up reading it in my bed. Good thing, because I would have been absorbed so long there wouldn’t have been enough aloe in the world to soothe the sunburn I would have gotten."

Abbilyeverafter says, "The book is full of likeable characters ranging from Claire’s Irish sister-in-law, her ex-boyfriend Max who just happens to be a world renowned rock-star to her snooty co-chair on the charitable committee. And let’s not forget the dashing Lock Dixon, husband of Claire’s friend injured in the car crash and also the executive director of the Nantucket charity. Claire and Lock find salvation in each other - each finding something in the other person they are lacking in their own lives."

So a Blonde Walks into a Review says, "She is study in contrasts. Yin and Yang. Fire and Ice. On one hand she is a loving wife and mother, and on the other, she is abandoning her family night after night to enjoy a fling with the head of a charity event (of which she is the co-chair). At times, she is a devoted friend to her sister-in-law, Siobhan, and at other times, she is keeping secrets from her and lying to her."

Frequently Wrong But Never In Doubt says, "Ok, that’s all I’m going to tell you, but all in all it’s a really fun book that makes you think about summer as you’re laying on the beach."

Big Blueberry Eyes says, "I really like Elin Hilderbrand’s style of writing - easy to read, easy to get caught up in the lives of the characters - you feel like any one of them could be your own neighbor."

Boogiemum says, "Claire is easy to relate to on some levels. Her identity struggle as a stay at home mom, is one that I have plunged through myself. Her issues with being pulled in so many directions is something a mom on any level can sympathize. Claire’s feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt is something I struggle with daily. Her need to express herself through her art, glass blowing, is fun and connecting."

Trek Casts On says, "A Summer Affair was an easy, fairly quick read. It is a well-written novel with characters that are genuine and believable and above all, very human. Does the protagonist grow? Does she come to terms with her guilt? Does she resolve the affair? Does she gain the ability to say ‘no’? You’ll have to read it to find out."

Wit’s End says, "In A Summer Affair , CDC has the absolutely perfect life (at least in my estimation). She is tall and lean with striking red hair. She is married to a guy with a secure job and six-pack abs that still lusts for her nightly. She lives in a custom home ON NANTUCKET ISLAND with her four children and is a glass artist….she blows glass on the artisenal scale. She’s not a crafter; she makes stuff for MUSEUMS. She doesn’t have to go anywhere to practice her craft; she has a hot shop in her backyard."

The Daily Bitch says, "There is drama. There is romance. There is hot steamy sex (on tables, even!). There is -you guessed it - a summer affair. Yeah, baby."

Cursing Mama says, "Elin Hilderbrand has created a believable story and cast of characters that allows the reader to see themselves, or someone they know somewhere. Relationships between spouses, friends and lovers - the notion of being true to oneself - small town politics & gossip - a little intrigue - and a lot sneaking around kept my summer beach reading pages steadily turning & I wouldn’t be surprised if they kept yours turning too."

After the Bubbly says, "I was as intrigued as much by the author as by the book. Elin Hilderbrand studied fiction at Johns Hopkins University and the University of Iowa. That’s a big deal. She’s already written several novels set on Nantucket and I’d be surprised if one isn’t made into a ‘major motion picture’ soon."

Dirty Little Secret says, "Claire’s affair begins soon after she’s stopped working on her art. Her husband doesn’t respect her talent - he doesn’t even want to have a real conversation with her. Consequently, Claire is vulnerable. And thus begins the affair. The novel chronicles it while chronicling a huge fundraising event - THE fundraising event - for the people of Nantucket. It also weaves in storylines from Claire’s sister-in-law and a few other characters."

Not a Day Goes By says, "Now, I don’t wanna give too much away, so I will stop here. I thought it was a page turner, I simply couldn’t put it down. It was just the right book for a hot summer day. It was a welcome escape and I hope you all go out and buy the book. Go, now!"

Mommy of Three says, "The day that this book arrived, I put down the book I was reading, and dove head first into this book. I stayed up way too late into the wee hours of the morning devouring it. Elin has such a great way of drawing readers immediately into her stories, and investing you into the characters that you simply cannot walk away from for sleep. You will not be able to put the book down. You are compelled to keep reading to see how the stories will unfold. The only disappointing thing you will find is the last page of the book. You will want more."

Lookit! I Spy says, "As soon as I started reading this novel I was sucked in. I couldn’t put the book down. A full 400 pages of pure excitement, with twists and turns and unexpected events that literally grab you and won’t let go."

Lastly, Compost Happens says, "Elin Hilderbrand uses several techniques to keep her readers thinking and wondering. Chapter titles are simple: ‘He haunts her,’ ‘She surprises herself,’ ‘He leaves her.’ However, the chapters don’t always follow the obvious meaning, so don’t assume anything. Most of the book is from Claire’s point of view, but later on changes to a more omniscient third person narrative."

June 19-27

More Than it Hurts You begins with the ominous first line: “Fifteen minutes before happiness left him, Josh Goldin led his summer intern by the elbow to share in the hallelujah of a Friday afternoon” and explodes into a story of intersecting lives, finger-pointing, and shocking turns.

When Josh Goldin’s son is brought into the hospital by his wife, Dori, the mother stands accused of Munchausen by proxy by doctor, Darlene Stokes. The book has been described as a novel “set in a world turned upside down–where doctors try to save babies from their parents, police use the law to tear a family apart, and the people you know the best end up surprising you the most.”

Where to find more about More Than it Hurts You and author, Darin Strauss:

	Author’s website Publisher’s website Darin will be blogging about his book tour for Newsweek.com.
	Look for reviews of More Than it Hurts You in Fresh Fiction.
	Interviews with Darin Strauss on his site, January magazine, and Identity Theory.
	The Real McCoy Chang and Eng Book tour information for More Than it Hurts You

Here is what MotherTalk reviewers are saying about More Than it Hurts You:

Magpie Musings says, “Five stars. Well-written, irresistible and so stimulating that I’m going to keep the review copy that I got from MotherTalk because I think it might be a good book club read.”

Fictionary says, “At first glace, the words on the cover seemed to be suspended on thin strands, like a mobile that hangs over a crib, and anchored by a lovely blue gossamer butterfly. But when I looked closer, the words and the butterfly are actually pinned by needles. Sewing needles. If that didn’t make the book a must-buy, Elizabeth Gilbert sealed the deal with her ‘harrowing, hurtling, and heartbreaking.’ The story is all that Gilbert proclaims it to be, and I’d add ‘haunting’.”

Jason. For the Love of God says, “Wow. Just…wow. I didn’t know what to expect with this book. I knew it was a story about an alleged case of Munchausen by proxy (which has always fascinated me, oddly), but I didn’t know it would be so much more…a story about class and race and the lines that divide people. I found myself totally engrossed in this book and unable to put it down. I finished in two days, an impressive feat, even for someone who devours books like they are oxygen.”

Desperately Seeking Sanity says, “After reading More Than It Hurts You, I’ve been able to step back and look at my own parenting skills. I spent the entire book going back and forth between HATING Dori and wanting to give her a HUGE hug. That emotion could change as quickly as I could turn the page. I could identify with the feelings that she had but I could never condone the thoughts that she carried out. I was angry with her, I was sad for her. And at the same time, I could feel for Josh and Darlene as well with their struggles, although I was never angry with them. But it did make me stop and think if outsiders, looking in to my life, could also say the same thing?”

A Life Less Ordinary says, “But what I discovered is that More Than It Hurts You isn’t really about that. It’s about something that I think we frequently fail to realize as we feed our collective schadendreude: There are two sides to every story. And that we shouldn’t always believe what we read.”

Mommy Writer Blog says, “Completely captivating and compelling read. Even though, there was more then once, I was a bit afraid what might be on the next page–or what dear character might throw me for a loop next. Trust me on this one, completely worth the read. Just get ready for a few surprises.”

Here We Go Again says, “This was the type of book I just couldn’t put down (note the staying awake until two in the morning) because I couldn’t wait to find out what would happen next. It was very well written, fascinating, and the information in it was good.”

A Girl and Her Life says, “More Than it Hurts You is a gripping novel that I could not put down. It has me thinking about how I portray myself to the world and how I perceive people. It was very well written and would make a great book club pick (Do you hear me Oprah?).”

Life with Heathens says, “In this newest work, Strauss touches on a variety of subjects reaching out to a wide and varied audience. In More Than it Hurts You, the main characters are Josh and Dori Goldin, a white Jewish family from Long Island who on the outside look like the typical young family but soon you find out that something is very wrong in the Goldin household.”

Cursingmama says, “A twisting tale told from the viewpoint of each of the major players of the story and those who influence its outcome; you get into the heads of these people and see the accusations from every viewpoint possible except that which we usually have - outsider. In fact we are ‘treated’ to an almost omniscient viewpoint in the case against Dori Goldin.”

Life in the Hundred Acre Woods says, “Strauss’ central characters do not arouse sympathy, nor are they even likable. Rather, they are artfully drawn to peel back the reader’s own preconceived notions and prejudices. And it is this — the book’s riveting yet heartbreaking unraveling– that is the genius of the story.”

Dirty Little Secret says, “The story and the plotting make More Than It Hurts You compelling, but the characters left me flat.”

As Yet Untitled says, “Strauss’ use of multiple point-of view characters allows the reader a glimpse not only into the mind of the mother, but also her husband, and the doctor who eventually intervenes. Each character brings a rich background to the story, and the circumstances that end up tying them together make for a rich and complex novel.”

Karma Calling says, “I just finished reading this book. Let me say this before anything else. The book reads like a script. Every detail carefully visualized. The characters all given 3-d lives, beyond the current storyline. I think it will make a great movie.”

Booking Mama says, “Probably the major reason that I enjoyed this book so much was that I found the author’s writing style to be superb. I wasn’t familiar with Mr. Strauss as an author; but after reading MORE THAN IT HURTS YOU, I now look forward to reading his other two books. Not only does he have to ability to tell a great story, but he also has tremendous insight into the attitudes and actions of today’s society.”

Weslani says, “About 1/4 of the way through something clicked. I couldn’t put the book down and finished it in two of my staying up way too late marathon book readings.”

All Rileyed Up says, “Strauss has turned out a beautiful novel about a family and a doctor’s pains, and their attempts to live through them, only to have fingers pointed and the looming words of race and religion, the general slap in the face that America has unfortunately delivered in the past. Interesting read. Thanks, Darin, for the food for thought.”

Compost Happens says, “Strauss tells the story through the character’s emotions more than through their actions. Their inner traits, the manner in which they approach emergencies, their skills (or lack thereof) with personal interactions, all contribute to bringing the reader deeply into the sticky web of a complex story.”

Creating Motherhood says, “Darin Strauss’s latest book, More Than it Hurts You, is an outstanding novel that reads like what I imagine looking at a photo-mosaic feels like: characters that seem out of place up-close, but when you turn the page you step back and are blown away by the big picture.”

Lastly, I Won’t Fear Love says, “Overall, this is not a bad summer read. It may, paradoxically, be an even better book club selection. Not because the evening can be spent discussing brilliance of the work, but because it can be spent discussing the many issues raised in the book (albeit via those heavy-handed stereotypes)– race relations, media influence, authority vs. family, various corporate cultures. There is a certainly a lot there, so don’t forget your mixed drinks.”

June 16–27

Over 1 million copies of the Pregnancy Journal have been sold and this newly-revised version of the successful journal is the perfect guide to navigating your pregnancy.

Each trimester is broken down on a week-by-week basis and those sections are broken down further into a daily diary of fetal growth and pregnancy symptoms. On any given day, you can discover what is happening to your baby while simultaneously knowing what you should be doing to take care of yourself.

An easy-to-use index in the back can also bring you directly to the information you desire. This journal will serve as a wonderful keepsake of the journey as well as an organizer for the pregnancy.

Where to find more about The Pregnancy Journal and author, A. Christine Harris:

	Publisher’s Website.
	Look for reviews of The Pregnancy Journal in Storknet and The New York Times.

Here’s what MotherTalk reviewers are saying about The Pregnancy Journal:

Laura Williams’ Musings says, “Looking back on my pregnancies I wish now I had actually kept a journal from beginning to end. I started a journal when I was pregnant with my oldest and I never kept up with it. I started a journal when I was pregnant with my oldest son and again, I just never kept up with it. I think it was due to the journals I tried to use. You probably know the ones. Those oh so generic, clinical, and boring ones that you receive at your first prenatal checkup and are tucked into the bags along with a gazillion ads, some samples, and a few magazines. Let me just say that THIS Journal is NOT boring like those are!”

Life as Lou says, “For most books the construction is not something I even think about- make it book-like and I’m going to read it, but if you expect me to write in it, how I love a sturdy spiral binding so it lays flat! That is why I make my personal journals with spiral binding and why I’m enamored with my Bind-it-all tool. Spirals, they make me happy- so score one for the Pregnancy Journal! Score two when you flip it over and find that it is made from post consumer waste, and therefor, more eco-friendly. For a book with over a million copies sold, that’s helpful!”

Here We Go Again says, “My absolute favorite parts of this journal were the little Childbirth in Other Cultures sections. I found these to be really interesting and I kept skipping ahead to read more of them. They weren’t found in each day’s entry but more like once or twice a week. There were also Childbirth Then and Now sections quite frequently. I thought these were fascinating because it was fun to see how far we’ve come (and in some cases, regressed, in my opinion).”

Sew Inspired says, “With both of my previous pregnancies I found day-to-day pregnancy websites that I visited almost every day to get a little bit of information about my pregnancy. This book is sort of like those websites, only with much more information as well as all the places to personalize it with my own thoughts. I think it will be really cool to have it as a keepsake after this pregnancy is done.”

Writing from Kiddom says, “Thinking back, it might have been nice to be able to look back and sort of get into my mind back then. I do know that if my husband and I decide to have more children (and we’re leaning heavily in that direction), I have found the perfect pregnancy journal!”

Mama Writing So I Don’t Go Crazy says, “There is a really cool section at the back for those poor moms who go past their due date. It gives information about not freaking out if the little one hasn’t appeared before or on the expected due date, and what’s happening in there while you’re impatiently waiting on the outside.”

Dana Reviews says, “The Pregnancy Journal is easily one of the best books available for a woman or couple expecting a baby. It’s wealth of practical information, medical data and emotional nourishment make it easier for the expectant mother to enjoy her pregnancy. It certainly helped me to let go of some of my ‘New Mama’ anxiety, too. If there was only one pregnancy book I could have purchased, The Pregnancy Journal would be my choice.”

Having Enough says, “The book walks a nice line between the typical Western medical, OB-attended model of birth and the more natural, alternative midwife/homebirth model, as well as the line between the typical American diet and the vegetarian-type ones.”

Life in the Petri Dish says, “The short entries are informative, interesting, and often amusing. And they are just the right bite-size amount for when you are suffering from pregnancy brain. And each page includes a relevant quote at the bottom.”

Reverendmother says, “I received this book in the mail a couple of weeks ago and set it aside: This won’t take long to review… a few thought-provoking paragraphs about pregnancy amid lots of empty space. Yesterday I opened it. Oops. There’s tons of great info in this book.”

Sassyfrazz says, “I love being pregnant! I have never written down what I was thinking, feeling, experiencing with the pregnancy, though! I love this concept! What a great way to journal everything with the pregnancy!”

Mommy Cracked says, “This journal is a day-by-day pregnancy companion. And the information! If you’re thinking this book is only chocked full of pregnancy related facts everyone already knows, think again! It also has little known fact excerpts on each page about how women celebrate pregnancy and childbirth around the world. I loved how each page gave just enough information for the day, things such as how your baby is developing, how you might be feeling, etc., It also had ample room to record your thoughts and pregnancy related stats. I definitely would have appreciated this journal more than the 5 inch thick nameless pregnancy book that I was reading at the time that droned on and on . And if you’re a busy woman you will definitely appreciate the succinct information that requires so little time to read.”

Rockin Mama says, “The Pregnancy Journal contains so many intricacies that make it such a special memoir. From daily inspirational quotes to information about Childbirth Then and Now, you’ll find this journal to be a source of information as well as an outlet for expression. Journal your waist size and weight (if you dare) and your mood, energy and appetite and look back after your baby is born. I plan on journaling our next pregnancy and am looking forward to re-reading my thoughts and experiences during my first pregnancy to see how they compare.”

Dirty Little Secret says, “I LOVE this one. Every single DAY has new information. Right this minute, for example, NewBaby is growing eyebrows. Okay, that may not seem exciting to you, but it thrills me to know that.”

Mama Fasha says, “This book not only gives developmental info, but parenting tips, health tips, notes about childbirth in other countries and places for your own notes. It also offers tips about being past your due date, how to prepare your first baby for your second, and a place to record every little detail about the actual birth and the hours following (example ‘who were the first 5 people you called?’ ‘Who was the first person to call you Mom? How did you react?’).”

Gloria’s Place says, “The book setup allows me to personalize my pregnancy with the dates and the notes. I don’t see this books as a detailed medical pregnancy reference book but more as a quick guide I can use to jot down notes, emotions etc. Doing this reminds me of a scrapbooking. In fact to me The Pregnancy Journal is a little bit journal and a little bit scrapbook combined. Maybe it should be called Pregnancy ScrapJournal.”

The Giesbrechts says, “For me, it’s really reassuring to know that so much is going on inside that I don’t know about. Right now all I know for myself is that I don’t feel great, I’m tired, I’m moody, and my belly is getting bigger. It’s great to know that the baby is developing and something new happens almost every day. It makes it that much more real, and helps me to feel better about all the symptoms, too!”

CaseyCasey says, “I found this particularly useful as a second-time mom-to-be - there are plenty of tips for second/subsequent pregnancies and parenting tips that I am sure I will not remember now but may look back to another day. I’ve jotted down notes a lot more in this edition than I have in the previous one. The neat thing about this journal is that you personalize it to your pregnancy - you start at the back of the book with your EDD and then date the pages backward.”

Deadlines and Diapers says, “The Pregnancy Journal has sold over a million copies, and I can see why. For one, it actually looks like a journal, and the sweet spiral-bound packaging, along with the soothing image of a mother and child on the cover make this a comforting place to get answers and record thoughts.”

Did You See That says, “And I love that the book is spiral bound - seems like that would make it a lot easier to write in. This journal is a must-have for anyone you know who is contemplating pregnancy or just got pregnant (you’ll want to have this from the very beginning!).”

Quaking Aspen says, “Love the fact that it has a spiral binding. That says to me that it’s really meant to be written in. The paper is rather slick, so you’d probably have to experiment with types of pens, to find one that would work best. But it’s also sturdy paper (and cover) and seems like it’ll last.”

Lastly, Mommy of Three says, “It is comforting to have a resource you can go to when new experiences occur, to calm your nerves and provide comfort. Especially if you have had difficulties in the past. Along with excellent information, this journal prompts you to think about and enjoy the experiences you are being blessed with, and allows space for you to record your thoughts. As your children grow older, you will be thankful to have this journal to look back on.”

June 9-13

Where to find more about The Maternal is Political and author Shari MacDonald Strong:

	Shari MacDonald Strong’s Website Publisher’s Website
	Interview with Shari MacDonald Strong
	Shari at MamaZine.com

Here’s what MotherTalk reviewers are saying about The Maternal is Political :

As part of the tour, Dewey from The Hidden Side of a Leaf interviewed author and editor, Shari MacDonald Strong. Strong revealed the story behind the title, collected the essays, and the biggest surprises from the contributors essays: “I think I was most surprised by the fact that they didn’t sound as overwhelmed as I often feel. The book is filled with hope and vision and affirmation of the nitty-gritty work that mothers are doing every day.” To read the interview in its entirety, please click over to The Hidden Side of a Leaf .

Production, Not Reproduction says, “I was watching something about the hurricane’s aftermath on television, feeling a familiar sad frustration, when an image came on of an older man slumped in a lawn chair where he had died, probably waiting for help. The thought flashed through my mind, ‘That man was somebody’s son,’ and for the first time I understood what people meant by that. I sat and sobbed as the human cost of injustice hit me in a way it never had before. That moment was when I began to understand that becoming a parent wasn’t going to just change my daily schedule, but also something fundamental in the way I viewed and moved in the world…It’s been awhile since I’ve felt so renewed after reading a book. Divided into three sections–Believe, Teach, and Act (my favorite)–the forty-plus essays address the anger, empowerment, fear, courage and hope that come with being a conscious mother.”

Half Changed World says, “I also liked the recognition that there are many ways to be political. A few of the writers were elected officials, and some engaged in politics by writing letters to the editor, going on protest marches, or submitting testimony to their state legislators. But many of them were political in everyday ways — raising feminist sons and daughters, choosing to reduce use of hazardous chemicals and natural resources, speaking up about equality in personal encounters, standing up to a man harassing another woman (who is someone else’s daughter), helping out another mother by taking care of her kids when she’s in a crunch. I think those examples may really help people who feel like they don’t have time to be politically active — or that nothing they do will make a difference — to think of ways to incorporate activism into their lives.”

Writing in the Mountains says, “Among the contributors, I was happy to see I recognized all the names, having read their work someplace else or read about them in the newspapers (most likely CNN or elsewhere across the Internet); as well as having worked with a few. Overall, it is a very necessary book- very emotional, very raw- necessary reading for every mother.”

Liza Was Here says, “I thought The Mean Moms was the most vulnerable and honest essay in the book. Although the perspectives couldn’t be more different, the naked truthfulness and bravery of Olen’s voice reminded me of Anne Lamott’s Operating Instructions. I’m not going to quote an excerpt because I can’t bring myself to expose the best and most awful story in the essay, out of context. Go read it yourself. The essay begins on page 243.”

Surrender Dorothy says, “Just as these women may not have set out to write on politics, neither did I. I don’t think I wrote one political essay until the birth of my daughter four years ago. Since then, I’ve spoken out on a lot, most often about affordable childcare. I didn’t think America needed my voice until I was flung into the trenches of motherhood, and I realized there is so much to be done, and not just for me and my family, but for all families.”

I Won’t Fear Love says, “There were many more moments of recognition for me. I was grateful to find that I am not the only one who gets the blood in the ears, can’t stop myself even though I probably should compunction to talk sharply and uncompromisingly about difficult and controversial topics, especially when the topic is raised in an unfair and biased way. Why, if Anne Lamont herself can’t resist, surely I can be forgiven for succumbing once in a while. Although I have never tried M&Ms as a recovery treat afterwards. I should remember that.”

Artificially Sweetened says, “Since P’ito came home, I’ve gotten pickier about my reading material. I have to - it’s a matter of fitting my blog reading in survival in between work, chores, friends and family. The measure of a really good book for me is when I turn to Pili and poke her and say, YOU, YOU HAVE GOT TO READ THIS RIGHT NOW and I do not care what vital activity of yours I am interrupting. Even sleep.”

Food for Thought says, “And with all this writing, The Maternal Is Political gets the big thing right, too. It’s great writing, cover to cover. It’s all here–gender politics, sexual politics, school politics, adoption politics, religious politics, body politics, community politics, family politics, social politics—but with a mix of tone and approach that makes the book a real pleasure to read. Rather than weighing you down with the utter importance of it all, these writers make you want to think critically, get up off the couch, make a phone call, sign a petition. Do good in the world, and teach your children how to do good, also.”

Did You See That? says, “Much like many of the writers in this book, I was never particularly “political” until I had children. Then I came into my own as a woman and as a mother. Now the world around me - security, health care (and lack there of), guns, education - became more important to me. Why? To make a better world for my children.”

Lastly, Mombian says, “War is on many of the writers’ minds, not only Pelosi, but also Strong, who worries about raising boys in the shadow of the draft, Gayle Brandeis, who tells of her path to involvement with women’s peach group CODEPINK, and Cindy Sheehan, who writes of being the most visible face of the movement against the Iraq war, and why she stepped away. Also a standout is Mona Gable’s essay on children in Albania in 1999, driven from Kosovo by then-president Slobodan Milosevic.”

June 9-13

All jobs benefit from training and Melissa Stanton’s book, The Stay-at-Home Survival Guide, is there to ensure that newly-minted stay-at-home mothers excel at their new job. Approaching motherhood as a career, Stanton gives concrete ideas on time management, transitioning to home after a full-time job, and even deciding if/when to enter the workforce again.

As Erika Lutz says about the book: “Becoming a Stay-at-Home mother shifts your entire world, and Melissa Stanton gets it. This intelligent, sensible, hands-on guide will help at-home moms navigate the rocky waters of time, self-image, self-esteem, sex, friendship, and everything else.”

Where to find more about The Stay-at-Home Survival Guide and author Melissa Stanton:

Publisher’s website Author’s website

Here’s what MotherTalk reviewers are saying about The Stay-at-Home Survival Guide :

Big Blueberry Eyes says, “And I wonder why I can’t get it together; at times I’ve felt so inadequate as a mom. Then I started reading this book…and those were my feelings she was writing about! I could identify with so much in the chapters I’ve read so far. This sentence really stood out to me, ‘If there’s one thing I hope women will learn from this book, it’s that it is okay to sometimes not love being a Stay-at-Home mom. ‘ Just reading that one sentence was like a weight lifted off my shoulders!”

Superdumb Supervillian says, “But seriously, it’s nice to have a non-preachy, non-patronizing resource to consult when you feel like you’re being stretched too thin. (Which is a bit too often sometimes. ) Funny is great, but real life is more pragmatic. The Stay-at-Home Survival Guide is kind of like a What to Expect for Stay-at-Home Moms, a book I expect to reach for whenever I feel like locking myself in a bathroom to get away from a sassy four year old…”

Rockin’ Mama says, “I LOVED and seriously needed the chapter entitled Motherhood: Who’s the Expert. We all aim to be the best mom we can be. But I wanted to do everything by the book and my husband and I have had many arguments over this. I am a perfectionist but not a perfect parent and have felt a ton of guilt over issues like allowing my son to watch television so I can get in a shower. This chapter was both reassuring and freeing.”

Book Haven says, “I love my daughter. I wouldn’t change my decision to stay home with her for any reason. But every time I get the urge to punch someone for saying ‘You don’t know how lucky you are to be able to stay home’, I think I’ll pick up this book instead. (Off to play peek-a-boo, go on a walk, put Maya down for a nap).”

Mommy Writer Blog says, “I seriously cannot gush enough about this book. It’s not a tell-all guide for leaving work and becoming a stay at home mom. Really. We all live different lives, who knows what you need to do to take the leap. But it does share what other moms did. What Melissa, the author herself, did. What you could do. And by all means, what you might do. But what the book does best is just share with you that–guess what–staying home as a mom is a full time gig. One that isn’t always pretty. Sometimes sucks. But in the end, can be survivable and fun.”

Wesnlani says, “Let me start of by saying that I LOVED this book. The Stay-At-Home Survival Guide by Melissa Stanton is definitely a must read for anyone who is a stay at home Mom, work at home Mom, or Mom’s who are even thinking of becoming one. This book talks about the wonderful side of staying at home right along with the challenges that you will face. Not only financially, but mentally and emotionally as well. I never felt like I was being preached at while reading this book but only encouraged. I loved how Melissa Stanton writes the truth of what being at home with your children really is.”

Get In, Hang On says, “I don’t agree with everything she’s said (but what friend do you agree 100% with, or want to), but the main point that I took away from the book is the feeling of reassurance that she is projecting to moms who are just making the transition out of the work place. I think someone just making the transition will get the idea that they aren’t doing something that is strange and that they can find their feet and survive.”

Live, Laugh Blog says, “This book is great on so many different levels. It let’s us all know (stay at home parent or working parent) that we all are doing what is best for our families. We’re all trying our best. And we all just need a happy place to go to in the midst of all the chaos. And that we totally shouldn’t beat ourselves up for having a bad day, or for just not wanting to play tea party for the tenth time that hour. This is also a great book for our working husbands to read. I don’t think they completely get how much energy and life these little children suck out of us!”

So a Blonde Walks Into a Review says, “I highly recommend this book to all stay-at-home moms, dads, or those who just want to understand what it’s like to be in our shoes. You’ll feel an instant camaraderie with Stanton and the moms who share their experiences in the book. And what stay-at-home mom couldn’t use a little camaraderie?”

Magpie Musings says, “Woven throughout the book are anecdotes Stanton garnered from a survey of about 60 mothers. It’s a very warm touch, and the book ends with three pages of ‘Final Words of Wisdom from the Experts’. But again, most of those words of wisdom are equally applicable to stay-at-home parents and all other parents.”

Lastly, Ask Moxie says, “I loved this book. There are a couple books I recommend without reservation, and this is one of them. I don’t think you’ll get much out of it if you’re not a SAH parent and don’t plan to be one, but if you are or have been or want to be or are planning to be a SAH mother, you will get something out of this book.”

May 27–June 6

Kim Hahn, the founder of Conceive Magazine, and Geoffrey Sher, a pioneer in reproductive medicine have teamed up to create The Fertility Journal, a comprehensive guide to getting pregnant.

It covers fertility basics–from understanding the reproductive cycle to health and nutrition while trying to conceive. Tables and charts to fill out aid women in knowing when they are ovulating and optimize their chance at conceiving each cycle. The Fertility Journal even includes sections for those undergoing fertility treatments.

As pretty as it is useful, The Fertility Journal will also serve as a keepsake of the journey.

Where to find more about The Fertility Journal and author, Kim Hahn:

	Publisher’s website.
	Conceive Magazine

Here’s what MotherTalk reviewers are saying about The Fertility Journal:

Sassyfrazz says, “With illustrations throughout and plenty of room to record the thoughts and feelings that go along with this exciting and emotional time, The Fertility Journal is an essential tool for creating a family.”

Everyday Stranger says, “What I can speak to and did explore was the second half of the book, where the diary gets into fertility treatments. There’s a short explanatory intro for the book in which the author describes some basics of fertility treatment. I think it gives a very good layman’s summary of what a basic IVF cycle is and does. You then have 6 weeks of diary entries, in which you can record questions, medication dosages, doctor appointments, thoughts that you are having, and there are even two pages to write out the hopes and frustrations that you may be having. The book even has a section to help a woman in the 2ww try to write out her anxieties. I thought back to my first IVF cycle years ago, and I think I could’ve benefited from a book like this.”

Reproductive Jeans says, “The Fertility Journal is something I definitely would have added to my shopping cart when Mook and I tossed out the pill. Since I love keeping track, organizing and planning, this journal would have been the perfect tool.”

Life in the Hundred Acre Wood says, “In order to increase my chances of conceiving more quickly, I started keeping track of my fertility signs. On my night stand sat a pen, a thermometer, and a paper to chart my basal body temperatures. What was missing at my bedside, though, was The Fertility Journal, by Kim Hahn and the editors of Conceive magazine.”

Dana Reviews says, “When the book arrived in my mailbox I was happy to see a blank calendar, allowing me to fill in my cycle day, basal body temperature (BBT), and my overall thoughts and feelings. Each page has a health tip and suggestions for looking ahead to pregnancy. I loved the organized format of this guide so much that I scheduled an appointment with my doctor to discuss some of the things I’ve learned.”

All Thumbs Reviews says, “Not tough like I didn’t appreciate certain aspects of the book, but tough like I’m pretty far beyond some of this stuff and it’s hard not to look at it with a cynical eye. Taking that cynical eye out of the picture SOMEWHAT though, one of my favorite things about this book is that it’s spiral-bound. While that may seem silly to a lot of people, if I’m going to WRITE in a book, I NEED it to be spiral-bound, cuz those bendy hard-bound regular-type books, well writing in them just doesn’t work.”

Our Family Beginnings says, “Overall, I love that the book isn’t all about a woman’s issues with conception, and makes it more about the couple. I’d like the ART section, however to be its own separate journal. Nothing depresses you about fertility treatments like the time wasted or the time still to wait, and seeing it pile up along with the first year would drive me nuts. Definitely, however, a great book for the research-oriented TTC’er at who I believe this is aimed!”

They Grow in Your Heart says, “The Fertility Journal, by Kim Hahn (founder and CEO of Conceive Magazine… so she knows her stuff and won’t tell you take a vacation or drink wine to get pregnant:) is one of the best resource